Maltz defines the self-image as the key to human personality and human behavior. “Change the self-image and you change the personality and the behavior,” he writes. The self-image acts as an invisible guide that steers our actions and behaviors to align with our perceived identity. By nurturing a positive self-image in your child, you empower them to embrace challenges, persevere through setbacks, and believe in their ability to achieve their goals.

One key aspect of elevating your child’s self-image is to help them understand that their self-worth is not tied to their mistakes or failures. Maltz states, “Mistakes do not make ‘you’ – anything.” Encourage your child to view setbacks as opportunities for growth and learning, rather than reflections of their inherent value or capabilities. By fostering an environment where mistakes are seen as stepping stones to success, you enable your child to take risks, learn from their experiences, and develop a growth mindset.

Another crucial component of building a strong self-image is the power of imagination. Maltz emphasizes that imagination is the first key to your success mechanism. “The unhappy, failure-type personality cannot develop a new self-image by pure will power, or by arbitrarily deciding to,” he writes. “There must be some grounds, some justification, some reason for deciding that the old picture of self is in error, and that a new picture is appropriate.” Encourage your child to visualize themselves succeeding, overcoming obstacles, and achieving their goals. By engaging in regular “mental practice” and creating vivid, detailed images of success, your child can begin to change their self-image and steer their automatic mechanism towards success.

In addition to nurturing a positive self-image, it’s essential to help your child develop self-acceptance. Maltz writes, “Self-acceptance means accepting and coming to terms with ourselves now, just as we are.” By guiding your child to embrace their unique qualities, strengths, and even their perceived weaknesses, you empower them to create a realistic self-image that allows them to live creatively and express their true selves.

Throughout your homeschooling journey, remember that building a strong self-image is an ongoing process that requires patience, encouragement, and consistent reinforcement. By incorporating the principles of Psycho-Cybernetics into your approach, you can help your child develop the mental blueprint for success, resilience, and happiness that will serve them well throughout their lives.