Develop Self-Awareness: Understanding Inner Experience

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Self-awareness—the capacity to recognize one’s thoughts, feelings, and sensations—allows children to distinguish their internal experience from external influences, building the foundation for conscious choice rather than reactivity. 

Research indicates that practicing mindfulness and reflection activities can help children become aware of their thoughts, feelings, and body sensations, developing self-awareness and the ability to distinguish oneself from the collective (Rochat, 2020).

For 7-year-old children, developing self-awareness involves learning to pause and notice their internal landscape—recognizing emotions as they arise, observing thought patterns, and sensing bodily reactions. 

This growing awareness helps children understand that they have an inner world distinct from others, allowing them to recognize when their authentic experience differs from group expectations or pressures.

Activities

Table of Contents

1. Mindfulness Moments

Purpose: To develop present-moment awareness of thoughts, feelings, and sensations without judgment, helping children recognize the contents of their consciousness as distinct experiences they can observe.

Materials Needed:

  • Quiet, comfortable space
  • Timer or chime
  • Mindfulness cue cards
  • Sensory focus objects
  • Mindfulness scripts
  • Comfortable seating options
  • Visual supports
  • Nature elements
  • Reflection prompts
  • Mindfulness moment jar
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Steps:

1.

Creating Supportive Mindfulness Conditions:

Set up experiences for successful awareness practice:

  1. Prepare an inviting practice environment:
    1. Quiet space with minimal distractions
    2. Comfortable seating or lying options
    3. Gentle lighting and comfortable temperature
    4. Simple visual focus point if helpful
    5. Consistent practice location when possible
  2. Introduce mindfulness in child-friendly language:
    1. “Mindfulness means noticing what’s happening right now.”
    2. “It’s like becoming a scientist who watches your own thoughts and feelings.”
    3. “We’re learning to pay attention to what’s happening inside and around us.”
    4. “Mindfulness helps us notice things we might usually miss.”
    5. “There’s no right or wrong way to practice—just noticing what happens.”
  3. Start with very brief, engaging practices:
    1. 1-2 minute sessions initially
    2. Clear beginning and ending signals
    3. Concrete focus objects or experiences
    4. Simple instructions with visual supports
    5. Engaging sensory elements

2.

Introducing Core Mindfulness Skills:

Build fundamental awareness abilities:

  1. Develop breath awareness:
    1. Noticing natural breath sensations
    2. Counting breaths to anchor attention
    3. Following the path of breath through the body
    4. Noticing qualities of breath (deep/shallow, fast/slow)
    5. Using breath buddies (stuffed animal on belly)
  2. Practice sensory awareness:
    1. Mindful listening to environmental sounds
    2. Mindful seeing with focused visual attention
    3. Tactile exploration with full awareness
    4. Mindful smelling with different scents
    5. Mindful tasting with simple foods
  3. Guide thought and feeling noticing:
    1. Naming thoughts as they appear (“I’m having a thought about…”)
    2. Noticing feelings in the body
    3. Observing thoughts without following them
    4. Recognizing when mind has wandered
    5. Returning attention gently when distracted

3.

Creating Engaging Mindfulness Variations:

Develop diverse practice approaches:

  1. Design nature-based mindfulness activities:
    1. Cloud watching with full attention
    2. Mindful exploration of plants or natural objects
    3. Stone or water focusing practices
    4. Weather awareness and sensing
    5. Animal observation practices
  2. Incorporate movement-based mindfulness:
    1. Slow, mindful walking
    2. Gentle stretching with awareness
    3. Freeze dance with body sensing
    4. Mindful balancing
    5. Slow-motion movements with full attention
  3. Create playful awareness activities:
    1. Mindful bubble watching
    2. “Spidey senses” super-awareness game
    3. Mindful listening with instruments or sound makers
    4. Awareness scavenger hunts
    5. Mindful movement challenges

4.

Building Mindfulness Vocabulary and Understanding:

Develop language for awareness:

  1. Guide reflective discussions:
    1. “What did you notice during our mindful moment?”
    2. “Where did your attention go during practice?”
    3. “What was it like to just notice your thoughts?”
    4. “Did you discover anything surprising?”
    5. “How did your body feel during our practice?”
  2. Develop awareness language:
    1. Terms for different mind states (busy, calm, focused, scattered)
    2. Words for qualities of attention
    3. Metaphors for mindfulness (flashlight of attention, thought clouds)
    4. Vocabulary for subtle sensations
    5. Ways to describe the experience of awareness itself
  3. Explore the nature of thoughts and feelings:
    1. Thoughts as mental events rather than facts
    2. Feelings as temporary experiences that change
    3. The observing self that notices thoughts and feelings
    4. Different layers of experience (thoughts, emotions, sensations)
    5. The difference between reacting and responding

5.

Integrating Mindfulness into Daily Life:

Transfer practice to everyday awareness:

  1. Establish mindfulness routines:
    1. Regular brief practice times
    2. Mindful transitions between activities
    3. Beginning or ending day with awareness moments
    4. Mindful check-ins during regular activities
    5. Special family mindfulness times
  2. Create environmental mindfulness reminders:
    1. Visual cues for mindful moments
    2. Designated mindfulness spaces or corners
    3. Mindfulness bell or chime for attention
    4. Mindful moment cards for spontaneous practice
    5. Mindfulness stones or tokens as tangible reminders
  3. Apply mindfulness to everyday situations:
    1. Mindful eating during snacks or meals
    2. Awareness breaks during homework or challenging tasks
    3. Mindful listening during conversations
    4. Body check-ins during physical activities
    5. Thought noticing during problem-solving

Mindfulness Adaptations:

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  • For active children: Start with moving mindfulness before still practices
  • For children who resist formal practice: Embed mindfulness in favorite activities
  • For children with attention challenges: Use more concrete sensory anchors
  • For anxious children: Begin with external awareness before internal focus

2. Feeling Reflection Time

Purpose:  To develop emotional awareness, vocabulary, and understanding, helping children recognize emotions as distinct experiences they can identify, express, and respond to consciously.

Materials Needed:

  • Emotion cards or chart
  • Feeling journal
  • Reflection prompt cards
  • Comfortable meeting space
  • Visual emotion thermometer
  • Drawing supplies
  • Emotion faces mirror
  • Feelings vocabulary list
  • Timer for sessions
  • Emotion check-in board
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Steps:

1.

Creating a Supportive Emotional Reflection Framework:

Establish regular practices for feeling awareness:

  1. Set up consistent reflection opportunities:
    1. Daily check-in times (morning, evening)
    2. Emotion-specific reflection moments
    3. Regular family feeling circles
    4. Post-experience processing time
    5. Scheduled one-on-one connection periods
  2. Create an emotionally safe environment:
    1. Validate all emotions as acceptable
    2. Avoid judgment or criticism of feelings
    3. Demonstrate emotional openness yourself
    4. Respect privacy and sharing boundaries
    5. Ensure predictable, calm response to disclosures
  3. Develop simple reflection routines:
    1. Regular opening questions or prompts
    2. Consistent format for check-ins
    3. Clear but flexible time boundaries
    4. Balanced speaking and listening
    5. Meaningful closing or transition

2.

Building Emotional Vocabulary and Recognition:

Develop language for internal experiences:

  1. Expand emotional literacy:
    1. Introduce nuanced feeling words beyond basics
    2. Create family emotion word collections
    3. Read books featuring emotional experiences
    4. Play emotion vocabulary games
    5. Create custom family emotion language
  2. Connect feelings to physical sensations:
    1. “Where do you feel that emotion in your body?”
    2. “What does anger feel like physically?”
    3. “How does your body tell you when you’re excited?”
    4. “What happens in your body when you feel nervous?”
    5. “How can you tell the difference between similar feelings?”
  3. Develop emotional self-recognition tools:
    1. Personal emotion maps or charts
    2. Customized feeling thermometers
    3. Emotion intensity scales
    4. Feeling color associations
    5. Body sensation drawing activities

3.

Facilitating Meaningful Emotional Discussions:

Guide productive reflection conversations:

  1. Ask effective reflection questions:
    1. “What feelings did you notice today?”
    2. “Was there a time when your feelings changed quickly?”
    3. “What was the strongest emotion you felt?”
    4. “Were there any feelings that surprised you?”
    5. “Did you have any mixed or confusing feelings?”
  2. Guide deeper emotional exploration:
    1. “What do you think caused that feeling?”
    2. “Have you felt that way before in different situations?”
    3. “What did that emotion make you want to do?”
    4. “How did you handle that feeling?”
    5. “What might help next time that feeling comes up?”
  3. Connect emotions to personal growth:
    1. “What did you learn from that feeling?”
    2. “How are your feelings trying to help you?”
    3. “What do these emotions tell you about what matters to you?”
    4. “How has understanding your feelings helped you?”
    5. “What would you like to remember about this feeling?”

4.

Creating Multi-Modal Emotional Expression:

Provide diverse ways to process feelings:

  1. Incorporate artistic emotional expression:
    1. Drawing feelings with colors and shapes
    2. Creating emotion collages
    3. Clay or play dough emotional sculpting
    4. Dance or movement expressing feelings
    5. Musical representation of emotional states
  2. Use narrative and verbal processing:
    1. Storytelling about emotional experiences
    2. Feeling-focused journal entries
    3. Voice recording emotional reflections
    4. Creating dialogues between different feelings
    5. Developing emotional experience timelines
  3. Engage in embodied emotion processing:
    1. Acting out emotions with face and body
    2. Creating emotion-specific movements
    3. Role-playing emotional situations
    4. Using puppets to express difficult feelings
    5. Breathing patterns matched to emotional states

5.

Developing Emotional Self-Awareness Habits:

Build ongoing reflection practices:

  1. Create personal emotion tracking systems:
    1. Daily feeling check-in charts
    2. Emotion journals or logs
    3. Digital emotion tracking (age-appropriate)
    4. Visual emotion calendars
    5. Weekly emotion review practices
  2. Encourage independent reflection initiation:
    1. Provide reflection tools for personal use
    2. Recognize when child initiates feeling discussions
    3. Create accessible emotion processing spaces
    4. Teach self-prompted check-in language
    5. Support child-led emotional sharing
  3. Connect emotional awareness to decision-making:
    1. “How do your feelings help you know what you need?”
    2. “What can your emotions tell you about your values?”
    3. “How might checking in with your feelings help with choices?”
    4. “When have your feelings given you important information?”
    5. “How do emotions help us understand what matters to us?”

Feeling Reflection Adaptations:

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  • For children who struggle with emotional vocabulary: Use pictures and scales before words
  • For children uncomfortable with direct discussion: Use creative arts or play for expression
  • For highly verbal children: Introduce more complex emotional concepts and relationships
  • For children with intense emotions: Create more structured, frequent check-in opportunities

3. Body Scan Relaxation

Purpose: To develop awareness of physical sensations and the mind-body connection, helping children recognize how emotions and thoughts manifest in their bodies and how to release tension consciously.

Materials Needed:

  • Comfortable space for lying down
  • Soft mat or blanket
  • Pillows for support
  • Body scan script
  • Relaxing background music
  • Body outline diagram
  • Body scan recording
  • Dim lighting options
  • Comfort objects (optional)
  • Timer or chime
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Steps:

1.

Setting Up for Successful Body Awareness:

Create conditions for relaxed attention:

  1. Prepare a comfortable environment:
    1. Quiet space with minimal distractions
    2. Soft surface for lying down
    3. Comfortable room temperature
    4. Dim or gentle lighting
    5. Cozy blanket available if desired
  2. Introduce the practice engagingly:
    1. “We’re going on a journey through your body with your attention.”
    2. “This helps us notice how different parts of our body feel.”
    3. “It’s like saying a friendly hello to each part of your body.”
    4. “This practice helps our body relax and our mind become aware.”
    5. “There’s no right or wrong way to feel—just noticing what’s there.”
  3. Address common hesitations proactively:
    1. Normalize fidgeting or discomfort
    2. Explain that minds naturally wander
    3. Offer eyes open option if preferred
    4. Provide choice of positions (lying, sitting)
    5. Start with very brief practices (2-3 minutes)

2.

Guiding Basic Body Scan Practice:

Lead age-appropriate somatic awareness:

  1. Begin with grounding and settling:
    1. Notice points of contact with the floor
    2. Feel the support beneath the body
    3. Take a few deeper breaths to settle
    4. Bring awareness to the whole body
    5. Set a curious, friendly attention
  2. Guide systematic body awareness:
    1. Start with feet and move upward methodically
    2. Use child-friendly language for body parts
    3. Allow adequate time for each area
    4. Include smaller parts often overlooked
    5. End with awareness of whole body
  3. Offer engaging sensory guidance:
    1. “Can you feel any tingling in your fingers?”
    2. “Notice if your shoulders feel tight or relaxed.”
    3. “Is your belly moving as you breathe?”
    4. “Are some parts of your body warmer than others?”
    5. “Does your face feel relaxed or are there any tight spots?”

3.

Developing Body-Mind Connection Awareness:

Deepen understanding of physical-emotional links:

  1. Explore sensation vocabulary:
    1. Words for different bodily feelings (tingly, heavy, light, tight)
    2. Temperature sensations (warm, cool, neutral)
    3. Texture-based descriptions (smooth, buzzy, prickly)
    4. Movement sensations (pulsing, still, flowing)
    5. Pressure or weight feelings (heavy, light, pressed)
  2. Connect emotions to physical experiences:
    1. Notice areas that hold tension during stress
    2. Identify where excitement feels most obvious
    3. Find body locations where calm is experienced
    4. Recognize physical signals of different emotions
    5. Observe how emotions change physical sensations
  3. Introduce intentional release and relaxation:
    1. Tensing and releasing muscle groups
    2. Sending breath to areas of tension
    3. Visualizing relaxation spreading
    4. Offering friendly attention to uncomfortable areas
    5. Noticing the difference between tense and relaxed states

4.

Creating Engaging Body Awareness Variations:

Develop diverse practice approaches:

  1. Use imaginative elements to maintain engagement:
    1. “Sunshine” slowly warming different body parts
    2. “Friendly spotlight” of attention moving through the body
    3. “Magic relaxation glitter” settling on each area
    4. “Thank you journey” expressing gratitude to body parts
    5. Animal friends visiting different body regions
  2. Incorporate subtle movement options:
    1. Gentle wiggling of fingers and toes
    2. Slight stretching of areas being observed
    3. Micro-movements to explore sensation
    4. Breath-synchronized small movements
    5. Progressive tension and release
  3. Create theme-based body scans:
    1. Gratitude body scan (appreciating each part)
    2. Strength-focused scan (noticing capability)
    3. Nature-themed scan (body as landscape)
    4. Seasons body scan (changing sensations)
    5. Space journey body exploration 

5.

Integrating Body Awareness into Daily Life:

Transfer practice to ongoing awareness:

  1. Establish regular, brief body check-in habits:
    1. Morning body hello practice
    2. Pre-sleep body relaxation scan
    3. Transition moment body check-ins
    4. Post-activity physical awareness pause
    5. Weekly longer relaxation sessions
  2. Connect body awareness to self-regulation:
    1. Recognize early physical signs of emotions
    2. Use targeted relaxation for specific areas of tension
    3. Practice quick body check-ins during stress
    4. Notice body signals indicating needs (hunger, rest, movement)
    5. Develop personal body reset techniques
  3. Process and reflect on body awareness experiences:
    1. “What did you discover about your body today?”
    2. “Were there any surprising sensations?”
    3. “How did your body feel different after our practice?”
    4. “What parts of your body were easiest to feel? Hardest?”
    5. “How does knowing your body’s signals help you?”

Body Scan Adaptations:

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  • For active children: Start with shorter scans or incorporate gentle movement
  • For sensory-sensitive children: Modify language to respect sensory preferences
  • For children with body image concerns: Focus on function and sensation rather than physical attributes
  • For children with attention challenges: Use more interactive elements and concrete sensory anchors

4. Personal Reflection Journal

Purpose:  To create a private space for processing thoughts, feelings, and experiences, helping children externalize and examine their inner world, recognize patterns, and develop their unique perspective.

Materials Needed:

  • Age-appropriate journal
  • Writing and drawing tools
  • Journal prompt cards
  • Decorative supplies
  • Journal storage solution
  • Reflection question list
  • Journal examples
  • Stickers or stamps
  • Privacy measures
  • Timer for sessions
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Steps:

1.

Creating a Meaningful Journal Practice:

Set up the framework for successful reflection:

  1. Select appropriate journaling materials:
    1. Journal with age-appropriate writing space
    2. Combination of blank and lined pages
    3. Durable construction for regular use
    4. Appealing but not distracting design
    5. Special writing tools for journal time
  2. Establish journal ownership and boundaries:
    1. Allow child to decorate and personalize journal
    2. Discuss privacy expectations clearly
    3. Create secure storage location
    4. Establish when sharing is and isn’t expected
    5. Explain your role as supporter not inspector
  3. Introduce journaling purpose and possibilities:
    1. “This journal is a special place for your thoughts and feelings.”
    2. “You can write, draw, or create in any way that feels right.”
    3. “Journals help us understand ourselves better.”
    4. “Sometimes writing or drawing helps us figure things out.”
    5. “Your journal lets you save your ideas and memories.”

2.

Developing Initial Journaling Comfort:

Guide beginning practice with structure:

  1. Start with engaging, accessible prompts:
    1. “Today I felt…”
    2. “Something I noticed about myself…”
    3. “I’m really good at…”
    4. “Something I wonder about…”
    5. “If I could do anything today…”
  2. Create multi-modal entry options:
    1. Drawing with simple caption
    2. Feeling faces with explanations
    3. Photos with written reflection
    4. Lists and simple bullet points
    5. Fill-in-the-blank sentence starters
  3. Establish supportive journaling routines:
    1. Consistent time for regular entries
    2. Special journaling space or area
    3. Clear beginning and ending signals
    4. Expectations about frequency
    5. Balance between freedom and guidance

3.

Deepening Self-Reflection Through Prompts:

Guide more insightful awareness:

  1. Offer thought-provoking questions:
    1. “When did I feel most like myself today?”
    2. “Something I noticed about how my mind works…”
    3. “A time I felt different from others was…”
    4. “Something that surprised me about myself…”
    5. “I know I need help when I feel…”
  2. Explore values and preferences:
    1. “Three things that are important to me are…”
    2. “I feel happiest when I…”
    3. “It bothers me when…”
    4. “I’m proud of myself when…”
    5. “Something I’d like to understand better about myself…”
  3. Encourage nuanced self-observation:
    1. “I noticed I felt two different ways when…”
    2. “My mind kept thinking about…”
    3. “Something that changed about how I felt…”
    4. “I noticed this pattern about myself…”
    5. “A question I asked myself today…”

4.

Supporting Reflective Processing:

Help children develop deeper insights:

  1. Guide optional sharing and discussion:
    1. “Would you like to share anything from your journal?”
    2. “Was there something you discovered while writing?”
    3. “How did it feel to write about that experience?”
    4. “Did writing help you understand something differently?”
    5. “What was easy or hard about today’s journaling?”
  2. Model reflective thinking:
    1. Share age-appropriate examples from your own reflection
    2. Think aloud about your own self-awareness process
    3. Demonstrate how writing helps clarify thoughts
    4. Show how to question and explore ideas
    5. Illustrate connecting different experiences
  3. Balance guidance with autonomy:
    1. Offer prompts as options not requirements
    2. Respect decisions about what to write
    3. Allow for privacy and non-sharing
    4. Provide help when requested
    5. Acknowledge the personal nature of reflection

5.

Building a Sustainable Journaling Practice:

Create ongoing engagement with reflection:

  1. Develop flexible journaling approaches:
    1. Varied prompt types for different moods
    2. Multiple entry formats for different needs
    3. Special occasion reflection opportunities
    4. Travel or experience-specific journaling
    5. Emotion-focused entry options
  2. Create journaling motivation:
    1. Special journal accessories or tools
    2. Journaling ritual or preparation
    3. Milestone celebrations of continued practice
    4. Occasional sharing circles (if comfortable)
    5. Journal time as special one-on-one connection
  3. Connect journaling to personal growth:
    1. Periodic review of past entries
    2. Noticing changes in thoughts or perspectives
    3. Recognizing developing self-awareness
    4. Acknowledging insights gained
    5. Celebrating the journaling journey itself

Journaling Adaptations:

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  • For children who struggle with writing: Focus on drawing with brief dictated captions
  • For children who prefer structure: Provide more specific prompts and formats
  • For reluctant participants: Start with very brief, highly engaging entry types
  • For highly verbal children: Offer more complex prompts and longer reflection time

5. 'Who Am I?' Collage

Purpose: To help children explore and express their unique identity through visual representation, developing awareness of their distinctive traits, preferences, values, and dreams that define their individual self.

Materials Needed:

  • Poster board or large paper
  • Magazines for cutting
  • Personal photographs
  • Drawing supplies
  • Scissors and adhesive
  • Decorative materials
  • Word prompt lists
  • Identity question cards’
  • Display materials
  • Creation space
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Steps:

1.

Preparing for Identity Exploration:

Set up a meaningful creative experience:

  1. Gather diverse materials:
    1. Variety of magazines with different themes
    2. Printed words and quotes
    3. Personal and family photographs
    4. Drawing and coloring supplies
    5. Textured papers and fabrics
    6. Stickers, stamps, and decorative elements
    7. Natural items (leaves, small shells)
  2. Create a supportive environment:
    1. Clean, spacious work area
    2. Organized materials for easy access
    3. Examples of identity collages (if helpful)
    4. Snacks and drinks for sustained attention
    5. Positive, accepting atmosphere
  3. Introduce the concept engagingly:
    1. “We’re creating a special art project that shows who you are.”
    2. “This collage will be a picture of your unique self.”
    3. “Everyone’s collage will be different because we’re all one-of-a-kind.”
    4. “We’ll include things that show your inside and outside self.”
    5. “This helps us celebrate what makes you, YOU!”

2.

Exploring Identity Components:

Guide reflection on different aspects of self:

  1. Discuss visible identity elements:
    1. Physical characteristics and appearance
    2. Activities and skills
    3. Possessions and belongings
    4. Family connections
    5. Places of importance
  2. Explore internal identity aspects:
    1. Feelings and emotional tendencies
    2. Thoughts, ideas, and beliefs
    3. Values and what matters
    4. Dreams and hopes
    5. Preferences and dislikes
  3. Consider social identity components:
    1. Cultural connections
    2. Group memberships
    3. Roles in different settings
    4. Special relationships
    5. Community involvement

3.

Creating the Identity Collage:

Support the creative process:

  1. Begin with foundational elements:
    1. Central image or representation of self
    2. Name or self-identifier
    3. Basic framework or organization
    4. Background that represents personality
    5. Main interest or passion areas
  2. Guide material selection process:
    1. “Let’s find pictures that show things you love to do.”
    2. “What colors feel most like you?”
    3. “Do any of these words describe you or your feelings?”
    4. “Which pictures remind you of your dreams?”
    5. “What symbols could show your special talents?”
  3. Support meaningful arrangement:
    1. Group related elements together
    2. Create visual hierarchy for importance
    3. Balance different aspects of identity
    4. Consider use of space and layout
    5. Allow for natural creative flow

4.

Deepening Identity Awareness Through Reflection:

Process the emerging self-representation:

  1. Ask thought-provoking questions during creation:
    1. “What does this part tell us about you?”
    2. “How does this image represent something important to you?”
    3. “Was anything surprising about what you wanted to include?”
    4. “Is there something here that most people don’t know about you?”
    5. “Which part of your collage feels most like the ‘real you’?”
  2. Explore identity insights:
    1. Patterns or themes that emerge
    2. Balance between different aspects
    3. Elements that feel most significant
    4. Missing pieces that might be added
    5. How the collage represents uniqueness
  3. Connect to broader self-concept:
    1. “What does your collage tell us about what matters to you?”
    2. “How are you similar to and different from others?”
    3. “Which parts of you stay the same in different  situations?”
    4. “What parts of yourself are you still discovering?”
    5. “How might your collage be different a year from now?”

5.

Extending the Identity Exploration:

Create ongoing self-awareness development:

  1. Display and reference the collage:
    1. Find appropriate place for displaying
    2. Occasionally refer to elements when relevant
    3. Use as reference point for discussions
    4. Notice when new interests or traits emerge
    5. Consider creating updated versions periodically
  2. Connect to everyday identity awareness:
    1. Notice times when child shows collage-identified traits
    2. Reference identity elements during relevant situations
    3. Acknowledge growth in self-understanding
    4. Discuss how identity evolves while core remains
    5. Support positive self-concept development
  3. Expand to other identity explorations:
    1. Create more focused theme collages
    2. Develop digital identity representations
    3. Write personal stories about key identity elements
    4. Conduct “identity interviews” with trusted others
    5. Explore how identity is expressed in different contexts

'Who Am I?' Collage Adaptations:

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  • For children who need structure: Create designated areas for different aspects of identity
  • For children with limited fine motor skills: Prepare larger pre-cut images and simpler materials
  • For children with language differences: Focus more on visual representations than words
  • For children wanting privacy: Create options for hidden elements or personal symbolism

These self-awareness activities help children develop:

  • Recognition of their thoughts, feelings, and sensations
  • Language to describe their internal experiences
  • Understanding of their unique identity and perspective
  • Comfort with self-reflection and introspection
  • Ability to distinguish their own experience from collective influences
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Remember that developing self-awareness is an ongoing process. Regular opportunities for reflection and self-discovery help children build a robust sense of their inner world.

The goal is to help your child develop the understanding that they have a unique perspective distinct from others—a realization that allows them to recognize and value their authentic experience rather than automatically adopting collective viewpoints.

Next Steps

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  • Choose one activity to begin implementing this week
  • Look for natural opportunities to ask reflective questions
  • Model your own self-awareness by occasionally sharing your reflections
  • Create physical and temporal space for quiet reflection
  • Acknowledge and validate your child’s growing self-understanding

Building self-awareness helps children develop a more individualized perspective as they learn to recognize and trust their internal experience rather than simply accepting external definitions or expectations of who they are.

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