Understanding What People Want

Have you ever wondered why people buy things or use certain services? It’s not just because they need them. There are special reasons called “Core Human Drives” that make people want things.

Let’s learn about these drives!

What are Core Human Drives?

Core Human Drives are like super strong wishes that all people have.  They help explain why we want certain things or do certain activities.

The Five Core Human Drives

The Drive to Get Stuff (Acquire)

This is about wanting to have cool things or be important.

Example: Wanting the newest toy or being the best at a game.

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The Drive to Make Friends (Bond)

This is about wanting to connect with others and belong.

Example: Joining a sports team or having a birthday party.

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The Drive to Learn New Things (Learn)

This is about being curious and wanting to know more.

Example: Reading interesting books or trying new hobbies.

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The Drive to Stay Safe (Defend)

This is about protecting yourself and the things you care about.

Example: Wearing a helmet when riding a bike or saving money in a piggy bank.

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The Drive to Feel Good (Feel)

This is about wanting to have fun and enjoy life.

Example: Eating yummy ice cream or going to an exciting amusement park.

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Why Understanding These Drives is Important

If you want to create something that people will like, it helps to think about these drives. The more drives your idea connects with, the more people might want it!

Let’s practice:

Imagine you’re creating a new board game. How could you make it appeal to different drives?

  • Make it fun to play (Feel)
  • Let people play with friends (Bond)
  • Include interesting facts to learn (Learn)
  • Have players collect special game pieces (Acquire)
  • Create safe rules for everyone to follow (Defend
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Remember: When you understand what people really want, you can create things they’ll love!

Can you think of something you really like? Which of these drives does it connect with?

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Business Fiction: The Secret Code of What People Want

Eight-year-old Lucas Rivera loved magic tricks. He could make coins disappear, guess people’s cards, and even make his pet hamster “vanish” behind a handkerchief. So when his school announced their annual Spring Festival where students could run activity booths, Lucas knew exactly what he wanted to do.

“A magic show booth!” he announced to his mom. “I’ll perform tricks and people will love it!”

Lucas spent two weeks perfecting his magic routine. He practiced card tricks, learned new coin illusions, and even figured out how to make a rubber ball appear from thin air.

At the Spring Festival, Lucas set up his “Amazing Magic Show” booth with a small table and a sign that read “Watch Incredible Magic Tricks!”

The first few kids who stopped by seemed mildly interested. They watched Lucas perform his card trick, clapped politely, and wandered off.

“That was neat,” said his classmate Alex before walking away to join friends at a different booth.

After an hour, Lucas had performed for maybe fifteen people, but nobody stayed long. Meanwhile, other booths were absolutely packed.

The face-painting booth had a line around the corner. The friendship bracelet-making station was so crowded kids could barely fit around the table. Even the simple ring-toss game had groups of kids cheering and laughing together.

“I don’t get it,” Lucas told his friend Maya when she stopped by. “My magic tricks are really good. Why isn’t anyone staying?”

Maya watched Lucas perform his coin trick. “It is really cool,” she said thoughtfully. “But after I watch it, there’s not much for me to do. I kind of just stand here and watch.”

That afternoon, Lucas approached Mrs. Kim, who was running the successful friendship bracelet booth.

“How did you know kids would love making bracelets?” he asked.

Mrs. Kim smiled. “Well, I thought about what kids really want deep down. My sister is a business teacher, and she taught me about something called ‘Core Human Drives.’ They’re like secret wishes that everyone has.”

“Secret wishes?” Lucas was intrigued.

“Five big ones,” Mrs. Kim explained. “People want to GET cool stuff, CONNECT with friends, LEARN new things, feel SAFE, and have FUN. The more of these wishes your activity connects with, the more people will love it.”

Lucas pulled out his phone and took notes. “Can you give me examples?”

“Sure! Look at my bracelet station. Kids get to CONNECT with friends by making bracelets together. They LEARN how to tie special knots. They GET to keep a cool bracelet. They have FUN with colors and patterns. And they feel SAFE because the rules are simple and everyone succeeds.”

Lucas looked around the festival with new eyes. The face-painting booth was packed because kids got to GET something cool (face paint), CONNECT with the artist, and have FUN. The ring-toss game was popular because kids could CONNECT by playing together, LEARN strategy, and feel FUN excitement.

“My magic show only connects with one drive,” Lucas realized. “People have FUN watching, but that’s it. They don’t get anything, they can’t connect much with me or each other, they don’t learn how to do it, and it’s not really about feeling safe.”

“Exactly!” Mrs. Kim said. “The most successful activities usually connect with multiple drives.”

That evening, Lucas sat in his room thinking. How could he redesign his magic booth to connect with more of these drives?

“What if…” Lucas muttered, grabbing a piece of paper. “What if instead of just watching magic, kids could learn magic?”

Suddenly, ideas started flowing:

Learn Drive: Teach kids simple magic tricks they could actually do Acquire Drive: Give them magic props to keep—like special coins or cards Bond Drive: Have kids work in pairs to learn tricks together Defend Drive: Create a “Magic Club” membership card that made them feel special and safe Feel Drive: Keep the fun and amazement, but add the excitement of mastering something new

The next week, Lucas asked if he could redesign his booth for the festival’s second day.

“Magic Training Academy,” he announced, unveiling his new setup.

Instead of one magic table, Lucas had created four learning stations:

  1. “Coin Magic Masters” – Kids learned simple coin tricks and got to keep special practice coins
  2. “Card Trick Partners” – Kids worked in pairs to master easy card tricks
  3. “Magic Club Initiation” – Kids earned official “Young Magician” membership cards after completing challenges
  4. “Amazing Props Workshop” – Kids made their own magic wands and trick boxes to take home

“Welcome to Magic Training Academy!” Lucas announced to the first group of kids. “You’re not just watching magic today—you’re becoming magicians!”

The transformation was incredible.

Kids flocked to the different stations, working together to master tricks. They were excited to GET their props and membership cards. They loved LEARNING the secrets behind the magic. They BONDED with partners while practicing. They felt SAFE knowing they could succeed at the easier tricks. And they had FUN performing for each other.

“This is so much better than just watching!” said Alex, who had barely been interested the day before. Now he was enthusiastically teaching the coin trick to his little sister.

“Can I come back after lunch to learn more tricks?” asked Emma, clutching her new magic wand.

By the end of the day, Lucas’s booth had been one of the busiest at the festival. Kids kept returning with friends, and several asked if he would start a real Magic Club at school.

“I can’t believe the difference,” Lucas told his mom that evening. “Same magic tricks, but completely different results.”

“What changed?” Mom asked.

“I learned the secret code of what people really want,” Lucas explained, showing her his notes about the five drives. “People don’t just want to watch something cool—they want to GET things, CONNECT with others, LEARN new skills, feel SAFE trying something, and have FUN doing it.”

“So your magic show was only hitting the ‘feel good’ drive?” Mom asked.

“Exactly! But my Magic Training Academy hit all five drives. Kids got props to keep, learned real skills, worked with friends, felt safe with easy tricks they could master, and had way more fun because they were doing instead of just watching.”

Lucas looked at his notes thoughtfully. “It’s like a secret code for understanding people. If you want to create something people will love, figure out which of these five drives it connects with. The more drives, the better.”

“Can you think of other examples?” Mom asked.

Lucas grinned. “Pokemon cards hit almost all of them! Kids GET to collect cards, BOND with other collectors, LEARN about different Pokemon, feel SAFE because there are rules and communities, and have FUN playing and trading.”

“Or think about birthday parties,” Lucas continued, getting excited. “Kids GET party favors, BOND with friends, sometimes LEARN party games, feel SAFE in a fun environment, and obviously have FUN celebrating.”

“You’ve cracked the code,” Mom said proudly.

Two weeks later, Lucas did start a Magic Club at school. But this time, he designed it using his understanding of the five drives:

  • Members got special Magic Club badges and practice kits (Acquire)
  • Kids worked in teams and performed for each other (Bond)
  • Each meeting taught progressively harder tricks (Learn)
  • Club rules made sure everyone felt included and successful (Defend)
  • Every meeting ended with a fun magic show where kids performed what they’d learned (Feel)

The club was so popular that there was a waiting list to join.

“Understanding what people really want isn’t magic,” Lucas told his Magic Club members during their first official meeting. “But it’s definitely the most powerful trick I’ve ever learned.”

And as he watched twenty kids excitedly practicing coin tricks together, Lucas realized he’d discovered something more valuable than any magic trick: the secret to creating things people truly want.

Song: What You Really Want

Verse 1:
You think you know what makes you tick
But let me break it down real quick
Five drives that make us all unique
Yet connect us all, from me to you

Pre-Chorus:
Acquire, Bond, Learn, Defend, and Feel
These drives are what make life real

Chorus:
What you really, really want
It’s not just what you need
Core drives are the key
To unlock your dreams
Acquire, Bond, Learn, Defend, and Feel
That’s what makes life real

Verse 2:
Get the coolest stuff, make some friends
Learn new things, it never ends
Stay safe and have some fun
These drives make us who we become

(Pre-Chorus)
(Chorus)

Bridge:
So when you’re making something new
Think about these drives, it’s true
The more you hit, the more they’ll love
It’s human nature from above

(Chorus)

Outro:
What you really, really want
It’s all about these drives
Understand them, use them right
And watch your ideas thrive